Can I Celebrate Chinese New Year After Someone Dies?

As Chinese New Year approaches this February, the festive atmosphere brings joy, reunion, and celebration to many families. However, for those who have lost a loved one—especially a parent—this season can also stir deep feelings of nostalgia, grief, and longing.

It is very common for families to have questions about what should or should not be done during the first Chinese New Year following the passing of a loved one. To help address these concerns and provide clarity during a sensitive time, we have put together this guide on traditional Chinese customs surrounding Chinese New Year after a death in the family.

Traditionally, during the first Chinese New Year after a loved one has passed, celebratory activities within the immediate family are kept to a minimum or forgone entirely. This may include refraining from house visits, festive decorations, loud celebrations, or gatherings.

In Chinese culture, death is often associated with inauspiciousness, and family members—particularly those in mourning—are advised not to visit other households during this period. The mourning period used to be three years in the past but has been reduced to a year as society evolves. Bereaved family members typically also do not give out red packets ( ang pao) for this particular Chinese New Year within the one year mourning period.

That said, friends and relatives may still visit the bereaved family at their home, provided they are aware of the loss and are comfortable doing so. Such visits are often quiet, respectful, and focused on offering support rather than celebration. The family members of someone who just passed on the year before are also allowed to receive red packets (ang pao) should someone gives them as a form of blessing.

These customs generally apply to the sons and unmarried daughters of the deceased, who are traditionally considered part of the immediate family unit. Married daughters, however, are usually regarded as belonging to their husband’s family after marriage and are therefore not bound by the same restrictions related to mourning within their birth family.

It is important to remember that customs can vary across families, dialect groups, and personal beliefs. Ultimately, how one observes Chinese New Year after a loss should be guided by what feels respectful, meaningful, and emotionally manageable for those grieving.

At Harmony Funeral Care, we understand that grief does not follow a fixed timeline—and festive seasons can be especially challenging. If you have questions about customs, rituals, or simply need someone to speak with during this period, we are here to walk alongside you with care and understanding.